Good parenting is critical for the development of children. In my post of October 31, 2011, I spoke of how nature and nurture play a significant role in the growth and development of children. How it is best to guide a child to achieve his or her greatest and highest potential rather than to “steer” a child into a parent’s choices of interests, profession and schools.
In my post of April 23, 2012, I mentioned my attendance at a wonderful presentation by psychotherapist Alice Virgil who spoke on how to build strong kids (and on the things parents and grandparents can do to participate in this development). Tops on her list were encouraging relationships, creativity, awareness, courage, initiative, morality and spirituality.
Last Sunday in a sermon, our priest added further inspiration for parents using a famous quote of Henry Ward Beecher. “The greatest bequest we can give our children is roots and wings.” The book Hot Chocolate for the Soul expands on this point — and provides context: “Good parents give their children roots and wings. Roots to know where their home is, and wings to fly and put into practice what they have learned.”
It’s a tough job being a parent (easier being a grandparent :)) but little words of wisdom like those above can’t help – but help.